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1. What happened?
Just the observable facts. Like a camera recording.
2. What did you feel?
Select emotions and physical sensations.
Emotional
Anxious
Sad
Angry
Ashamed
Guilty
Frustrated
Lonely
Overwhelmed
Disappointed
Hopeless
Embarrassed
Irritated
Physical sensations
Tight chest
Racing heart
Sweaty palms
Dry mouth
Nausea
Heavy shoulders
Lump in throat
Headache
Butterflies in stomach
Shaking hands
Fatigue
3. What went through your mind?
Identify thoughts and behaviors that followed.
Cognitive patterns
All-or-nothing thinking
Catastrophizing
Mind reading
Emotional reasoning
Overgeneralization
Should statements
Labeling
Fortune telling
Unhelpful behaviors
Avoided the situation
Withdrew from others
Sought reassurance
Procrastinated
Overworked to compensate
Snapped at someone
Ruminated repeatedly
Checked repeatedly
Used phone to escape
Overate / Undereat
Stayed silent when needed to speak
4. Examine the thought
Evidence supporting it
Evidence against it
Balanced alternative thought (Say to a friend)
5. A healthier action
6. How do you feel now?
Notice any shift — even small changes matter.
Remaining distress
Anxious
Sad
Angry
Ashamed
Guilty
Frustrated
Lonely
Overwhelmed
Disappointed
Hopeless
Embarrassed
Irritated
New or stronger positive feelings
Calm
Relieved
Hopeful
Confident
Grateful
Grounded
Empowered
Peaceful
Motivated
Accepted
Optimistic
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